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Letter for Little Sugar: HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BABY GIRL!

12 months! That's one year. A whole year!

12 months! That’s one year. A whole year!

Oh my goodness! As of 7/22/14, you are one whole year old! You are officially NOT an infant anymore. *Sigh* You are actually 14 months old by now, but we are going to pretend that you’re still just 12 months…you little pookies keep mommy busy!)

Happy happy birthday to my sweet little smunchie wunchie woo woo. I love you so big. I can’t believe just how perfectly you have fit into our family, Lila Jane. Everybody loves you, even your sister. Mostly. But you are easy to love. You’re smiley and social and what a sassafrass you are. It’s really cute.

I am melting. And where did you get those green eyes?!

I am melting. And where did you get those green eyes?!

We had a fun birthday party for you at home and your family came from all over Texas, just for you. Mommy made a yummy strawberry cake and you had a mini one all to yourself. You weren’t so into it at first, but you warmed up and eventually, it even got in your hair!

First sugar and that was your very own cake!

First sugar and that was your very own cake!

In this last month you have become an excellent communicator. You know how to tell what you want, and also what you don’t. For example, We were lying in bed nursing before I put you to sleep. I was patting your little tushie-woo like I always do, but I must have stopped absent-mindedly. You reached down, grabbed my thumb with your tiny hand, and pulled my hand up and down in a patting motion. “Mommy, come on!”

And if you don’t want something, you make that known by swiping at it or shaking your head no vigorously. But you always, always make a scrinchie face when the answer is no.

I had to include this one, even if it's a little blurry...just look at those piggy tails!

I had to include this one, even if it’s a little blurry…just look at those piggy tails! I mean, if that ain’t cute…

Since last month, you have learned how to sit yourself up! You have been able to sit independently for a while now, but you just hadn’t figured out how to go from lying to sitting all by yourself until now. You were so proud! (And so were we πŸ™‚

You have also become a master of peek-a-boo. The changing table is the preferred place for a round of peek-a-boo. You really know how to cover your sweet little face with your open palms, sometimes you even cover your face so hard that it sounds like you’re hitting yourself! Do it like you mean it, Lila Jane!

She's leading you in some hand clapping. Good times!

She’s leading you in some hand clapping. Good times!

You love The Itsy Bitsy Spider. You’ll put your little fingers together (kind of like the sign for more) and I know you want to hear your jam. You also say the same word every time, sounds like “pa-dah.” I think you’re trying to say spider.

You have pushed two more teeth through! But your bottom teeth are still only a pair…it kills me when you do your incredible hulk face with those two tiny teeth sticking up! LOVE. (Look at this video, the Hulk appears at 13 seconds. Ha!)

We had a birthday party for you and lots of family came from all over the place just to celebrate little ol’ you! Aw!

You just started scooting. If we needed any further proof of your being a monkey, this was it. Who cares about crawling, you get around monkey-style and BOY do you like to explore now. You are happy to scoot around from one place to the next discovering what’s hiding in this box or under that toy. It’s so cute!

Look! It's the Lila pucker.

Look! It’s the Lila pucker.

And you also like to pucker your little red lips when you concentrate. I usually take this as a cue to steal a kiss! When you’re mad, like when your sister takes something away from you (which is all the time), you hit the ground with both hands and blow a raspberry into the air–so funny! I know you’re trying to express frustration but it is really one incredible display of cute.

Like herding cats...that's you, Georgie, and your cousin Tobey at cousin Katherine's wedding. He's your sister's fave person in the world.

Like herding cats…that’s you, Georgie, and your cousin Tobey at cousin Katherine’s wedding. He’s your sister’s fave person in the world.

Speaking of big sis, she has really started to see the value of your company. You two engage each other more and more and seem to really enjoy playing together. She is such a good girl, you will learn from the best. Y’all love to play peek-a-boo with the door in the living room, that elicits tons little fairy giggles–best sound ever! You also love of playing peek-a-boo in daddy’s kick drum. *more fairy giggles*

Little Sugar, you have made our little family so much brighter. Sugarpie is even starting to get used to you! You are funny, feisty, and affectionate. You are precious, delicious, and beautiful. I just can’t believe my eyes when I look down at you while nursing and see shiny dark hair, long eyelashes and red cheeks. What a gorgeous and perfect little creature you are, inside and out. I am so glad that it was you. I am so glad that it was your sister. I am so glad that it was your Daddy. I am so glad that I get to be a part of your lives.

So this is our last monthly letter, but I write volumes and volumes of love songs in my heart every time that I see your sweet, tiny little face. You are my sunshine, Lila Jane. You and your sister…my sweet sweet sunshines. Happy birthday, baby girl. Looking so forward to seeing what year two will bring πŸ™‚

Love you forever and ever,

xoxo Mommy

P.S. Since you turned a year old, you’ve started burying your face in my neck and squeezing your little arms around me so hard! It’s theΒ  most passionate little baby hug I have ever seen and you cannot even imagine how special it is. One day, I hope you’re lucky enough to have a little sugar just like you πŸ™‚


Letter for Little Sugar, 11 months

What a big girl! And those feet still hold so much allure...

What a big girl! And those feet still hold so much allure…

Dear Little Sugar,

Well, we have just one more month where you will officially still be a baby…can you believe that?! I can’t! I love you so much, little Lila Jane, and you are almost one year old.

You have been a busy little bee with all kinds of cuteness. In the last month you have started to use some signs that mommy taught you. You use the sign for “more” and “all done” and you even made the sign for “eat,” but only once. You used to just imitate me, but you’ve really started to use the signs in the right context. Mommy’s not going to go crazy with it though, I just want you to be able to communicate a little.

You're adorable when you're annoyed.

You’re adorable when you’re annoyed.

Speaking of communicating, you are showing us all just how sassy you are. Your temper personality is REALLY coming out now. You are one cool cucumber, a mellow yellow most of the time, but when you want something or you just don’t agree with the situation, you let us know! Your scary face (the one you started making a couple of months back at the piano) is SO funny. It’s very Incredible Hulk. This happens mostly when you’re eating and you really like something and Mommy is taking too long to get more for you. Anyway, it’s just one of the ways that you communicate.

Your sister was playing peek-a-boo with you! One day she will appreciate that someone looks at her that way!

Your sister was playing peek-a-boo with you! One day she will appreciate that someone looks at her that way!

For a little while, you would pucker your lips like you were concentrating…I just couldn’t stand how adorable it was! But you’ve moved on, ah well.

Sugarpie, your big sister, doesn’t get to push you around as much anymore either because you sure know how to make an impression when she takes your toy or tickles you when you’re not in the mood. Girl’s gotta stand up for herself!

Our family :)

Our family πŸ™‚

You aren’t crawling yet, but you’ll get there…what’s the rush? You seem like you’re trying to pull up in your crib, but we haven’t gotten past wanting to action. In time!

You got your first hair cut this month too! You have a lot of hair, girfriend, and we cut bangs. I cannot tell you how much of love it!! And I bet you’re happy too, not to have all of that hair in your face.

Daddy has his first Father’s Day with TWO GIRLS. How lucky is he? When he hugs you and your sister, he has an arm load of love for sure.

Y'all were watching the rain. My girls love to play in the crib together!

Y’all were watching the rain. My girls love to play in the crib together!

The other day, I realized what color your eyes are. Mommy used to live on an island in Southern Italy called Ischia. The water was crystal clear, beautiful, and turquoise. But there was one little corner of the island that Mommy just loved called Cartaromana. There, the water was a little different. It was a deeper, darker green with a little blue, depending on the sun. On a hot summer day, all you could do was jump in and feel the cool green relief of that water. Magical! And your eyes are just that color. How special!!

Teeth!! You are working on two more.

Teeth!! You are working on two more.

Little Sugar, I love you and all of your chubby, soft, sweet, and delicious babyness. Please don’t grow up too fast. Here’s to our last month of being an infant!!

Love you forever and ever,

xoxo Mommy

Letter for Little Sugar, 8 months (and 7!)



Delicious! And you're outgrowing Teddy!

Delicious! And you’re outgrowing Teddy!

Dear Little Sugar,

You are 8 months old! Well actually, you are 8 and a half months old. Mommy is very late AND missed your 7 month letter because you two girls keep me BUSY. Not to mention that we moved the day before your 7 month birthday, that was no easy task with two little stinkers! I am sorry.

So what’s new since your 6 month letter? Well…we live in Houston now, for starters. Sugarpie transitioned immediately, but you had a harder time. But now, there are so many fun things to do in our house and in our new city! You seem to be enjoying it.

In your seventh month, you started eating real food! It was a slow start, but man you are HUNGRY now. Your first taste was an avocado and a banana, self-fed, just like your sister. You didn’t care for the avocado at first, but now you love it. We also started sleep training. It was slow-going, but we’re getting there. What else, oh…you said “Daddy!” on February 18 and you say Mamma and Nanna all the time.

Month seven wasn’t spectacularly eventful but month eight has been full of good stuff. For example, you started sitting up, and really sitting up confidently on March 17. Also, you got your first tooth followed immediately by your second, they are SO cute!! I am not in a hurry for you to lose that gummy grin, so don’t rush those top teeth out, ok?

Clapping is your favorite new thing. The sound of your tiny hands patting together is the cutest thing ever invented. Ever.

Trying to get a hold of that there banana

Trying to get a hold of that there banana

So back to eating, you love it. You eat so much sometimes that I cut you off because I don’t want you to get a tummy ache! Your favorites are meatballs, yogurt, apples, beans and you ate so much chicken curry that I thought you would burst! You also like broccoli and cheese and pretty much anything that I put in front of you. Really. We’re trying work on not getting too constipated, but it still happens sometimes.

You have had 2 ear infections in the last two months. I hope you don’t take after Mommy! I had them a lot too, they hurt. Georgia still hasn’t had one.

We have a little red piano and I put you in front of it to play. You thought it was so cool that you got all excited! When you get excited about something, you stare straight ahead, open your eyes really wide, and you shake your head like you just can’t stand it! It’s about midway through this video:

You also have your very own crib now! You really seem to like all the space and you have discovered that you like to sleep on your tummy. When you sleep like that, you wake up with the craziest sleep hair! It’s the cutest.

I get to see this little face every single morning.

I get to see this little face every single morning.

You love to lay back on my lap and let your head hang over my knees, upside down. It’s funny.

So I guess I’ll be writing your 9 month letter pretty soon! And I just can’t believe that your first birthday is right around the corner. I love you so much, sweet little Lila bear. You have stolen my heart! I can’t believe how lucky I am that I get to have a glass of fresh-squeezed Lila Jane every morning, and a big warm mug of hugs from your sister. Who could ask for more?


xoxo Mommy

Letter for Little Sugar, 5 Months


It is just you.

Dear Little Sugar,

You are 5 months old! You are really interacting with the world more than ever now. Patience is your virtue as I continue to badger you with snuggles and kisses every second. I cannot help it, I love you too much.

The day before Thanksgiving, you rolled over for the first time! It was the fastest way out of Tummy Torture, and you figured it out. We’re still waiting for you to roll again, but it’ll happen! I learned not to worry too much about that stuff after seeing how well Sugarpie has turned out. (She hated Tummy Torture just as much as you do!)

That's you and Nanna before Sugarpie's party.

That’s you and Nanna before Sugarpie’s party.

We had our first Thanksgiving with you and we had Sugarpie’s 2nd birthday party! You loved all of the attention and activity that her party offered. In fact, you have turned out to be quite a little mellow yellow, my love. You’re always happy being held and you have even learned the fine art of chillaxin’ all by your sweet self. You entertain yourself by chewing on your toes, or chewing on a blanket or something. In fact, you prefer blankets to rubbery chew toys! Go figure.

You grab at everything and gum it all. You like to get a satisfying handful of hair and see how loudly you can make your victim squeal and beg for release from your chubby little hand! Mwahahahha!

And those thighs, good lord they get yummier every day.

But Mommy digresses.

You like to wake Mommy up in the morning with your proud (VERY) high-pitched squeal. It’s a happy one though, you have a look of power on your little face as you can now command attention in a way other than crying.


She’s SO cool.

And we know how much you LOVE Sugarpie. Whenever you look at her my mind goes into a montage of you watching her with the Police song Every Little Thing She Does is Magic playing over.

Every life needs a soundtrack, right?


Gooey gooey, nice and chewy.

Little Sugar, every day you melt my heart into a big fat gooey mess. Between you and your sister, I’m just a puddle of goo all of the time. I am one lucky mommy to have you, your sister, and your Daddy! And you better believe that I know that every second of the day.

Love you forever and ever,

xoxo Mommy

Letter for Little Sugar, 4 Months


You are outpacing teddy! This was the one shot I was able to without your toes in your mouth.

Dear Little Sugar,

Hi! You turned 4 months old on Friday! And you are such a little love muffin, let’s just get that out of the way. The world is opening up to you and you are EXCITED. You love to squeak and squeal and play with your voice when you’re hanging out in your activity gym. You kick your little legs and wave your little arms and get so happy.

Speaking of legs, my oh my yours are gettin’ good and chunky. They’re soft and squishy and way too delicious for words. I love to blow raspberries right on your thighs and you think it’s pretty funny.

Mommy is trying to learn how to play the ukelele and no matter how much I mess up, you smile and smile when you hear it. Thank you.


nom-nom-nom. nom-nom-nom-nom.

Now everything goes straight to your mouth. I think I might even see the faint hint of two little bottom teeth on the horizon, but please, keep that gummy smile a little longer! You like to look at your left hand, like you’re zooming in on your target, then you grab it with your right and pull it to your mouth to gobble it up. It’s SO cute!

Last weekend, Saturday November 16th to be exact, we were driving to a birthday party and you said “mama.” For real. Now I don’t believe for a second that you meant it, but the two syllables ma and ma came out of your mouth, back to back. I could hardly believe it! It was as clear as day and I know no one will believe me, but it’s true. Your Daddy and I often feel like you are trying to mimic what we say. Sometimes it sounds like you’re trying to say hi. I guess it won’t be long before we can hear what’s going on in that sweet little brunette head.

Your favorite toy right now is a taggy that your friend Zephyr’s mommy made for you before you were born. (You know her, she’s Mommy’s friend and she snuggles with you too. Her big sister Pearlie and Sugarpie are friends.) Your eyes get really big when you see it and you grab at it slowly then snap it to your mouth. It has lots of different textures and fun things to slobber on.


Taggy love Exhibit A. Unnecessary cuteness, Exhibit B.

You still don’t like tummy time and since your sister experienced no developmental delays due to my lack of will to make her squirm and scream face down on a blanket at your age, I guess you’ll eventually lift your head just fine too. I mean, you have great head control when sitting up and being toted around, so I’ll keep the torture to a minimum.

You LOVE being on your changing table. The moment I take off your diaper, your little feet shoot right up to your mouth. I understand, Mommy can confirm the tastiness of those little tootsies, I want to nibble them too! (And I do.)

Sugarpie is by far, the most entertaining thing in your world. All she has to do is bounce around like the toddler she is and you just dissolve into fits of giggles. She shook her head over and over the other day and you just couldn’t contain your laughter. It is the sweetest music I’ve ever heard! If you keep that up, she’s going to start paying more attention to you.

I know I say this every month, but I just fall more in love with you every day! And that’s a LOT. You and your big sister are the most important, beautiful, best part of our lives and we couldn’t be more thrilled with the children we’ve been blessed with. You are sweet, delicious, effervescent sunshine and I am so glad that you are mine πŸ™‚


xoxo Mommy

Letter for Little Sugar, 3 Months


Now you’re bigger than Teddy! And that hair…I had just washed it so it was really fluffy.

Dear Little Sugar,

You, my little sweet muffin, were 3 months old yesterday and I am already feeling nostalgic about when you were a newborn. You’ve managed to lose that newborn look in the last month and you’re growing SO fast! Mommy tries so hard to hang onto every second of your sweet baby-ness because you will likely not have a little sibling. When you wake up around 8:30, I come to you and as soon as I say “Good morning, sunshine,” you give Mommy a huge gummy grin while turning your head to the side, just like that, every morning. I drink in your generous smiles and then I lay you on the bed to let you get all of your many stretchies out. You have a lot of them and it takes about 10 minutes for you to empty your plump little body of all of every single one. I’m so lucky that I get savor these moments. So lucky!

And did I mention your toots? You’re full of those too! Morning smiles, morning stretches, morning toots. I love it all.

You’ve been checking off those milestones too. In your “activity gym” the other day you worked so hard to grab the little bird’s wing, and you did it! You had to bat at it for a while and all that concentration gave you lots of spit bubbles that collected at your pursed lips. It was way too cute.


You melt Mommy’s heart. Just look at you!

When you were 10 weeks old, you had a growth spurt. Mommy woke and…you were a real baby, not just a fragile little newborn πŸ™‚ During this time, we went to Orange (where Mommy grew up) for the first time. Georgia had the time of her life playing with her cousins while you let everyone hold you and say how cute you are. We’ll meet your California family too, won’t be long!

Laughing has become pretty common, it’s the best sound. Your sister Sugarpie was shaking some pink mardi gras beads on Monday and you thought it was the funniest thing! I hope that’s a hint of things to come. I hope that, over the years, you and Sugarpie have more smiles together than you can count. That was just the first.

Last month I mentioned how talkative you are. This month you’ve added more sounds: aaah-ooo! Guhhhh! And you’ve even added a newer, higher-pitched squeal to your cry when you really mean business. You pull out your whole repertoire when I talk to you on your changing table. As for crying, you have a few different ones. You have one for when you are hurt or really hungry, and one when you are sleepy and trying to drift off. This one is really cute because it’s more like intermittent protesting than crying. Your sister pretty much had one flavor of crying. This is just one way that you two are different.


Yes Lila Jane, those are your toes! And you can play with them WHENEVER YOU LIKE. How cool is that?

Not only have you discovered your cute little tootsies, but you also have started to bring your hands together. That may not be the most exciting milestone, but it’s an important one. You like to clench your fists and stare at them too. Is that the baby version of comtemplating one’s navel?

Lila Jane, I love you so much. You and your big sister have brought so much joy in richness into our lives. Being a mommy is the best, because you and Sugarpie are the best.

I love you forever and ever,

xoxo Mommy